The Help Continued

    I have finished 'The Help'. Although at first I seemed to be having a hard time connecting to the story, in the end I couldn't put it down. There are so many more dinamics to this story than I originally gave it credit for. Choosing to do the right thing isn't always easy. In this story, the main character (that is white) looses all her friends, boyfriend, and status because she feels that treating someone different because of their skin color is wrong.

    I discovered that the thing I was missing was right in front of my face all the time. The story is about not having prejiduces against people (for whatever reason) and that is something I feel very strongly about. It is an awesome example of rising up against adversity and sticking true to your own beliefs, despite what society might say.

   I realize that if this book was written 40 years earlier, there would be alot of controversy, but at this time, in this day it still feels appropriate. It reminds all of us to keep what we believe close to our hearts and remember who we are. I encourage everybody to look at their lives, and look at who influences their desicions, then make the promise to yourself that you will act according to your own concious and not to what society believes is right.

  I know that from now on I will take a look at my life, and stand up for what I believe to be true. I'm not saying its not ok to disagree about these things, but have enough respect to relize that just because someone might not agree with you, it doesn't make that person bad or evil. I guess I'm just trying to say that this book taught me to stand up for what I believe in, while still showing respect to other people and their ideals.

Thanks,
Book Hoarder

The Help

    "The Help" is the first book I decided to write about. I am currently reading it, so I haven't finished it yet, but it has me somewhat perplexed. It takes place in 1960's Alabama and follows the story of two african american maids during the begining of the civil rights movement. I understand the concept of the book and I know that it is meant to be moving, but I'm having a hard time connecting with this story. I was born and grew up in a predominately white town some 20 years after the movement has ended, so maybe I don't understand the signifigance of this story. I have tried to use my own experiences to relate. I have looked at the people in my generation that have been persecuted, like the gay community and how I feel about that, but this just seems different. It's not a good comparison and I'm not sure why I can't find anything in this book to relate to.
   On a totally unrelated note, I have a hard time reading the parts that are in the voice of the maids. It is meant to have the same slang and southern drawl that they would actually have, but my crazy correct grammer brain screams in frustration. I know this seems stupid, but anytime I read a book that doesn't have proper english or that the author does not use imaginative and different ways to tell the story I get really frustrated and bored. I wouldn't disregard this book simply based on the grammer. That is just a personal issue that I need to find a way around. In reality this book is well written and shows (I think) in a very realisitic way how people lived and felt about what was going on around them.
     In all I would say check it out. It might seem more rewarding to someone that grew up in this era or has a more diversified childhood. It is well written and you can tell that the author thought out each character. They all have their own specific personalities and parts to play. I have yet to see how the story plays out, but I am excited about finding out.
   If you have any thoughts or comments about a way to for me to find a connection, I would enjoy the imput.
Thanks,
Book Horder